Different; but not wrong!

"Every life is different, Every person is different. Every emotion is different, every expression of emotion is different. Every smile is different, every cry is different. Every step is different, every road is different. Every mile is different, every region is different. Every state is different, every country is different."

We all know changes are happening every second in our life. The day we lived yesterday can't be the same today and never will be. There may be some similarities but there always be one or another thing that makes that day different.

Despite everything being different around or even within us, we all expect that others have to be the same as us. We could walk on a road daily, passing by the same tress, crossing the same lane still, we think it would lead us to something different. Apart from all this, there are still many changes happening. The one thing that we often forget is where are we standing in this whole change.

Have you ever thought of being so different from each other, why do we always end up expecting the same from the other person?

We bring in a relationship, expect our partners to feel the same. We expect the day we spend should be the same for both, we expect one might be comfortable with certain things just because we are in the comfort zone. One might feel to be quiet while the other might have chosen to be dramatic. One might express feeling through words, one might by actions. You might choose to speak about your problems but other might chose to be num processing the whole thing. But this all would never make you or the other wrong at all. You might express it differently but that doesn't make you wrong.

We live under one sky, we may have walked the same road at the time perhaps we share dreams apart. I dream of having something that could be called mine, you dream of something that's already your to shine. We might have connected the other night, but the end for us shows different light. Children being studying in the same school, end up having careers of their own. I have seen people doubting the goals too. ( "You don't have an MNC Job or five-digit package after MBA). What if I have chosen this step to get my life to know other choices. You can't be wrong being yourself or choosing what you feel.

If a girl chooses to take a break just to get together her life, while the boy next door might be burning his ass out to make his career. That doesn't make the girl or the boy wrong. It is just their priorities are different, they dream different, they take their own time. Speaking of priorities, a woman must be taking her children as priorities while you are priorities today.

All these years, I might have not learned to be perfect but one thing I learned is that just being different doesn't make you wrong. It doesn't make you less perfect or less successful. It doesn't make you good or bad. Keep this always in your mind that the person might not be thinking the same as you, doesn't make him less smart or intelligent. You know how have you survived your day today, what hustle you have been into to being the person you are today. Never punish yourself if you are feeling different from another person,

There would be days when you would doubt yourself and get up in a whole mood of giving up. And that's fine too. That's okay too. Just remember to make this a one-time thing and not your belief. Believe that you are different, you are unique, and not wrong!!!

Keep smiling! Toodles!

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